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What are you waiting for?
May 21, 2011

We think more logically now. As teenagers, we think more deviously. We make excuses, we lie, we hide things. We concoct plans we never would have thought of before. Plans that will get us in trouble, but we do anyway, just for the thrill. We’re young. We have all the time in the world to make mistakes, to choose the wrong path, but also to figure out where we fit and what makes us happy. Because that’s what life really is. It’s about taking chances. It’s about jumping into deep waters, even when you can’t see the bottom. Sure, you’ve got everything to lose, but you also have everything to gain.  If you sit around constantly afraid of everything, you’ll get no where. So don’t live with regrets. Do what you want to do, when you can do it. And most of all, take that chance. Just jump in.


These are my confessions
January 2, 2011

I’ve been in love.
I’ve been in lust.
I’ve had a crush that lasted over a year.
I’ve liked someone and they liked me but we didn’t date.
I’ve liked more than one person at a time.
More than one person has been interested in me at the same time.

I’ve been involved in a love triangle.
I’ve experienced unrequited love.
I’ve had a crush on a member of the same sex.
I’ve made out with a member of the same sex.
I’ve done something sexual with a member of the same sex.
I’ve dated someone of the same sex.
I’m straight.
I’ve been in a relationship that lasted at least one year.
I’ve been in a relationship that lasted at least two years.
I’ve never been in a relationship that was shorter than a month.
I’ve been in few relationships.
I’ve only had one long serious relationship.
I’m still friends with at least one of my exes.

I had a “kindergarten boyfriend.”
I’ve dumped someone.
I’ve been dumped.
I’ve asked someone out.
I’ve been asked out in person.
^ over the phone.
^ online.
I’ve been dumped through a note.
I’ve been cheated on.
I’ve cheated on a significant other.
I’ve had unprotected sex.
I’ve been given a ring from a guy.
A guy has given me flowers.
^ jewelry.

I’ve given a hickey.
I’ve received a hickey.
I’ve received a hickey from someone I wasn’t dating.
I’ve received a hickey on my neck.

^on my chest.
^on my boob.
^ on my chin.
^ on my ear.
^ on my stomach.
^ on my thigh.
I had my first kiss when I was fourteen.
I’ve kissed just a friend.
I’ve made out with just a friend.
I’ve received a love letter.
I’ve written a love letter.

^ I delivered it too.
A guy has written a poem about me.
A guy has written lyrics about me.
I’ve gained weight because of a break-up.
I’ve dated someone who didn’t go to my school.
I’ve been in the same class as a boyfriend.
I’ve dated someone younger than me.
I’ve dated someone older than me.
I’ve had a crush on someone who was at least a year younger than me.
^ at least two years younger.
^ at least three years younger.
I usually confess to my crush about how I feel.
I’ve been proposed to, and he was serious.
Someone has been obsessed with me.
I’ve been kissed in the rain.
^ on the beach.
^ in a pool/jacuzzi.
^ on a rollercoaster.
^ while driving.
^ while they were driving.
^while in the shower
^while i was asleep
^ all over my body.
^ at the park.
^ under fireworks.
^ under the sunset.
^ at school.
^ in class.

I’ve been someone’s first kiss.
I’ve been someone’s first love.
I’ve never been “the other woman” in an affair.

I’ve went with a significant other/crush to the movies.
^ to the zoo.
^ to Disneyland.
^ to a baby shower.
^ to a party.
My first date was at the movies.
I had a crush on the boy next door when I was little.
I’ve taken a romantic walk on the beach.
I’ve had a picnic on the beach with that special someone.
I’ve taken a nap with a significant other.
I’ve taken a nap with a crush.
I like to spoon.
I love cuddling.
I’ve had a sleepover with the opposite sex.

My parents adore my current significant other.
My siblings adore my current significant other.
My significant other’s family likes me.
I’ve dated someone whom my parents didn’t like.
^ who was in a different political party.
^ who was of another ethnicity.
I’ve dated somebody who was in a band.
^ a rock band.
^ the school’s marching band
^ jazz band.
I’ve dated somebody who played sports.
^ football
^ track
I’ve dated someone who plays an instrument.
I’ve dated the drum major of the marching band.
I’ve been complimented on my eyes.
^ my hair.
^ my humor.
^ my smile.
^ my overall personality.
^ my overall looks.

I’ve been sang to.
I’ve cuddled with somebody under a warm blanket on a rainy day.
I’m a tease.
I consider myself to be a flirt.
I’ve fallen for my best friend [of the opposite sex].
^ we ended up dating.

I’ve liked someone who already had a boyfriend/girlfriend.
I’ve liked someone while I was already dating someone else.
Somebody has “stolen” a significant other from me.
I’ve flirted with a friend’s crush.

A complex question
July 10, 2010

Actual children’s answers to the question:
“What is love?” 

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”
Billy, age 4

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”
Terri, age 4

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”
Mary Ann, age 4

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”
Tommy, age 6

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt and then he wears it every day.”
Noelle, age 7

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”
Bobby, age 7

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Brad Pitt.”
Chris, age 7

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”
Danny, age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.”
Emily, age 8

How long do I have to wait?
July 6, 2010

“I don’t think it’s healthy for you to be like this.”
“I don’t know any other way to be.”
“You just can’t be so sad.”
“Guess that’s the way it is.”
“Why are you subjecting yourself to it though?”
“Because I deserve it.”
“No one deserves such sadness.”
“I deserve it after all the pain I’ve caused. I have to learn how my actions hurt others and this is the only way I can fathom to do so.”